I feel your pain girl. Managing Lupus and Fibro is like a sick, disgusting joke..... Now, this is just me, but if my hubby did that, he'd be making all his own meals, doing all his own laundry, etc, etc. If he isn't going to help you, then he needs to feel how it is for you to not help him. Give him a taste of his own medicine. He's not being fair and kind to you. I don't put up with that when my hubby does things like that. He learns the hard way, but he learns:P
OR... Like you said, hire someone to help you or ask a neighbour? Really lay a good guilt trip on him. But personally, I wouldn't be lifting a single finger for him whatsoever. He's on his own!
Keep it real, girl!!!
I can do anything through Jesus Christ who strengthens me. I have learned in whatever state I am in,to be content. Phillipians 4:11-13
35 years old. Diagnosed with Lupus in 2000. Fibromyalgia, Anti-phospholipid syndrome(APS)(stroke, 2002), Sjogren's, Raynaud's, Libman Sach's Endocarditis, vasculitis, sacroiliitis, arthritis (neck), anxiety, Chinook migraines. Prednisone, Imuran, Coumadin, Clobazam, Amitriptyline, Didrocal, Cozaar, Zoloft, Neurontin, calcium, multi-vitamin, vitamin D, Magnesium, vitamin B6, Acidophilus
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