Hi Pepe and welocme. I agree with the others about getting your lupus treated. If you are not comfortable with this rheumy, keep looking until you find someone you really like. I finally found a good rheumy on my 3rd try. Take care and keep us updated on how things are going.
dx: UCTD (lupus)
meds: prednisone, plaquenil, methotrexate, tramadol, neurontin,
doxepin, folic acid