Hi German lady, My name is carol/ I just wanted to say hi and welcome you to the group. Most of the people I talk to are from here. They have taught me a lot. They have a lot of compassion sometimes I feel bad that I don't have much to give back. I have lots of family but they put the FUNK in dis FUNK tional. My husband went to heaven 10 years ago so I'm not real sure where that is so we don't get together much and my son (who was in Iraq) 03/04 lives in idaho. which is about
1000 miles from here, well we don't talk a lot either but at least he's in the states. Last year really stunk living with my relatives trying to get money to get myself a place. I finally got my own place the first week in dec.
Not everything is peaches and cream but I have a choice as to weather I am going to let it ruin my day or not.
I really wish I had someone somtimes, to snuggle up with and be the big strong person that is going to make everything ok but I ain't holding my breath.
I think the counseling is a real good idea. Mostly because if a person think that their (partner) is going to fix everything they will be disapppointed. Not to mention it isn't fair. Half the time I'm not even sure why I'm mad but I expect somone else to fix it for me.
Most of the time I am not thrilled about being sick but once in a while I think my life is fuller because of it. Some times the sun looks a little bit brighter, the music is a little bit sweeter and the hug from the grandkid last a little bit longer. well anyway I could go on but fortunately for you I'm gonna shut up now. lol.
again welcome to the group I hope you enjoy it here.
systemic sclerosis,scleroderma,sleep apnea, anemia, COPD
But those who wait on the LORD will find new strength. They will fly high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.