So sorry you are going through this. It's very important that you find a Rheumatologist that you know has good experience in diagnosing and that you are confident you can work with. It doesn't sound like your doctor is real involved in his patient. I have been very lucky in that my doctor answers my emails within 24 hours and I have gotten calls from him after 7:30 pm to discuss my lab results and condition.
I'm attaching a good web site that explains the ANA testing. I would be the last one to try to explain it to you. LOL... Anyway there is some great research on the web. Don't be afraid to call your doctor back and ask him /her to go into detail about what the tests mean to you in a way you have a clear understanding. That's what you pay them for.
Diagnosis: Fibremyalgia, Chronic Myofacial Pain, Degenerative Disc Disease, Degenerative Joint Disease, Connective Tissue Disease, Lupus, Osteoarthritis, Anemia, Issues caused by being severely double jointed. Vitamine D Difficency.
Meds: Vicadin, Meloxicam,Omepraxole(high dose previced) Vitamin D 50K , Ambian, Savella,Lyrica, Tramadol, Cyclobenzopine, Voltaren Gel, and Pennsaid Drops.