Sorry to hear that jdrea. For me most people tell me that they know someone with it. Just let their looks go, don't worry about
If, it si a doctor they most know, but anyone else.....just tell them you are doing ok....or that you have had better days. I had a friend that was dying. When ever someone asked his reply was "okay", "good" or "well". He once told me that people don't really want to know how he is doing. That they don't want to hear "I am dying"
That is one thing I can tell you about
this site.....people CARE!!!! and CARE alot.
Enjoy what you can today and leave the rest for another day.