I use Refresh and TearsNaturale. At night if your eyes get very,very dry try Refresh PM. It is a gel and really helps keep your eyes lubricated. During the day if you can close your eyes and rest apply Refresh liquid gel. It will blur your vision, that is why I suggest you use it if you can keep your eyes closed for 20 minutes or so. There is also prescript
ion Restasis, that has really helped me. Whatever OTC lubricant you use besure it is preservative free.
I also use all of the supplements Lynnwood suggested. Sjogren's is very common with Lupus, that may be what is causing your dry eyes.