Jade, I'm sorry I can't interpet the results. I know you're very worried about your baby girl. Some of the things you describe does sound like lupus, but I'm no expert. I'm still learning about it myself. You're going to have to wait for the talk with the Rheumy for answers.
So, take a deep breath....If this is lupus your baby needs you as a strong front for her. Give her lots of love and care (which I have no worries about you doing), find out everything you can about it, and stick around for more answers.
Remember, lupus is like the fishing booth at the school fair...you never know what you're going to get.