You probably need to see the rheumy about
the facial aberration. Not that many dermatologists are experienced with Lupus, unless you happen to be in a largely populated area (big city) they might be difficult to find. You didn't' say when your next appointment is, but in general whenever you have new or changed symptoms it is good the check in with the Dr.
If you are exhausted after 2 stores to need to take care of yourself and REST. Stress really exacerbates Lupus, so you may be feeling worse just because of the season and they expectations. Find ways to minimize stress.
Telling them you are tired isn't the same as showing them you are tired. Maybe you can try delegating some tasks? And don't let yourself pick up the slack! Lupus is a hard disease to *see* and most of us our families don't really get it until they can see how tired we are.
Take care of yourself FIRST! Hope you feel better soon,
Lynnwood, Lupus & Sjogren's ModeratorDIAGNOSING-LUPUS & LUPUS-RESOURCES
"Life is far too important to be taken seriously" - Oscar Wilde