Hi Mary Ann. It is so nice to hear of a family of an ICer being involved and supportive because so many of us are not as fortunate as your daughter in law. Go to /www.ic-network.com/
, specifically their support forum www.ic-network.com/forum/forum.php
. I am 20 years old, and I was finally diagnosed at 12 after having it for ages. My mother found this website and proposed the possibility of me having IC to my doctor because of the ICN. I have the same screen name on there as here, if you want to chat...I made a screen name here just to answer your question. Again, your daughter in law is so lucky to have an in law like you! Show her the website too, and best wishes.