Have you seen the 11 indicators of lupus at lupus.org? You need to meet 4 of the 11 to be diagnosed by a rhuematologist.
Only a rheumy can tell you if you have lupus or something else autoimmune.
Yes, lupus involves many of the symptoms you've described, but it could be something else. Try not to worry yourself while you wait to be diagnosed. Meanwhile, we're here to listen and support you through the testing and afterwards.
I can suggest you try biotin for your hair loss. It can slow down the loss and strengthen what's there. Don't worry your hair will regrow, mine was straight as a board before and now it's very curly.
Lupus, Fibromyalgia, Glaucoma, Asthma, Hypothyriodism, Sleep Apnea, OA, Depression, Allergies, and benign familia tremors
When life throws you lemons....
Pick them up and throw them right back at them! :))