Welcome to the forum. I'm sorry you've gotten diagnosed, but we are good listeners here. So vent away and ask questions. We will listen.
I hate medicine too, but if it helps I will gladly take it. Plaquenil will slow down the lupus. I take the maximum dose of it.
To help the hair loss try taking biotin.
Lupus, RA, Fibromyalgia, Glaucoma, Asthma, Hypothyriodism, Sleep Apnea, Depression, Allergies, and benign familia tremors
When life throws you lemons....
Pick them up and throw them right back at them! :))