Since you are suspecting Fibro, Lupus, and Rheumatoid Arthritis, you should know that all 3 of these are diagnosed by and treated by a rheumatologist. I suggest finding one as soon as possible - none of these are really diseases that an ER is equipped to help you with.
I'm surprised your PCP hasn't refereed you to a rheumy before now. What does the PCP think it is, or do they think they can treat it themselves? All of these are better dealt with by a rheumy.
Lynnwood, Lupus & Sjogren's Moderator, Dx: 2002DIAGNOSING LUPUS & HW's LUPUS 101
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