Glad you found us! Although the site is designed more with the Lupus patient in mind, we are all friendly folks and are happy to help you as much as we can.
Also, I think almost any support group for spouses of (any) chronic illness would welcome you. Even if their spouses disease isn't exactly like your husbands there are still many things in common.
Lynnwood, Lupus & Sjogren's Moderator, Dx: 2002DIAGNOSING LUPUS & HW's LUPUS 101
"Life is far too important to be taken seriously." - Oscar Wilde