Sorry to hear about all that. On the SS side, I was really sick and they did that to me. They always do that, leaving the door open for you to go to voc rehab if you want. Anyway, they have to find a certain percentage of jobs in your area that you can do with all your limitations and they never do. So then you get it. They're just dragging it out. And the more limitations you have, the harder it is. They came up with some ridiculous profile of a job I could do and when they asked the occupational guy at the trial how many jobs there were, he said zero. So it goes.
I agree on stocking your room up. That way, you have your own little oasis. I'm so so sorry about your mom, I know that must be so hard to deal with, let alone trying to help your dad to come to terms with it. Then, trying to get the docs and your mom to get together on things. I hope and pray that things go good for you!
--Doctors are men who prescribe medicines of which they know little, to cure diseases of which they know less in human beings of whom they know nothing.--Voltaire (1694-1778)
Ills--Sjogrens-Lupus-like AI Disease, Hashis, Vitiligo, spinal stenosis/fusion with plate, salivary/lymphectomies, Diabetes, NAFLD, COPD, RLS, neuropathy, trigonitis, hystero, diffuse brain atrophy
Meds--Plaquenil, Evoxac, Metformin, Synthroid, HCTZ, Estradiol patch, Prosed, Klonopin, Soma, Ultram, Vicodin, Restasis, Albuterol,steroid injections, Protopic & Triamcinolone Acetonide ointments