Sorry I'm just getting to see this. I kind of see both sides and agree with the majority here.
We as women think too much into things that men's minds aren't wired to do. I catch myself analyzing things my husband says instead of taking it for face value which 9 out of 10 times is the case. Don't get me wrong, men can play games but they are more likely to just say how it is rather than dancing around the issue which us women seem to do a lot. I would suggest that you tell your friend to
openly ask about
the pants but not in a threatening type of manner to maybe get a better feel for what he meant.
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