Welcome to the forum Doxiemom,
I see the others have given you some good advice. Just wanted to add my welcome and let you know that you may find some help in the "Lupus Resources" link at the end of my signature. The members wrote suggestions to new members and there is a post in that topic giving all that friendly advice.
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