I am sure your mom is worried not only about
you but...how she can take care of you during this active time of her illness. You may want to talk honestly about
you feeling out of the loop making you feel so scared for her. I am sure your mom tries to keep the details from you in an attempt to protect you. You might want to tell not only about
you concerns for her but how not having any knowledge about
her health makes you feel more scared for her. Lupus is a strange disease and effects everybody different...it can be very hard on everone to deal with. Your mom has dealt with this illness in her own way for years, so tell her everthing on your mind...it may help her deal and your relationship in the future.
With God all things are Possible.
Dx: Lupus (SLE)2002, Sjogren's Sydrome 2002, GERD 1995, Depression 1995, Sleep Apnea 2006, IBS 2000, Migraines 2001, Anemia 2002, Seizures in 1995 (unknown causes). Meds: Cymbalta 60 mgs, Plaquinil 200mg once daily, Nexium 40 mgs, Prednisone 5mg