I feel similar to you because I can't do any housekeeping either, not even laundry or anything. My Husband, who works full-time and even sometimes on weekends, has to do everything, and he's not completely healthy either. My Mom does come over and help sometimes, but it is hard to watch others doing what I should be doing. I feel totally worthless sometimes, and yet my Husband has never complained - he supports me and loves me through all of this. I feel so undeserving.
Just know you aren't alone ~ take care,
Chronic Lyme Disease, Gluten & Sulfite Sensitivity, Many Food/Inhalant/Medication Allergies & Intolerances, Asthma, Gut issues (dysmotility, non-specific inflammation), UCTD ("Secondary Lupus-Like Syndrome"), Osteoporosis, Anemia, Lymphopenia, intermittant Pancytopenia, chronic malabsorption/malnutrition, etc.; G Tube; Currently TPN-dependent.
Meds: Zofran, Pulmicort, Heparin (to flush PICC line), IV Cipro (for G-tube site infection).