I am so sorry. It is crap. I think this was already said, but most of them do HAVE to give you a pap every year or they won't give you b/c. This way, they can check to make sure you don't have the beginnings of cervical cancer, so that protects you. ANd, it protects them so that if they gave you b/c anyway, they can get malpratice for not making you get a pap when you are "sexually active." Heck, even when you aren't. I had to get surgery three weeks ago and they did a pregnancy test. I was so freaking mad because I havent had sex in a year. But, it is because of the people who lie about it and then sue when their baby is hurt.
But, speaking of not being accomodating. I applied for Disability in March. Not even for this, because I didn't know yet what was going on. I applied because my panic attacks were so bad that I could not leave the house. Agoraphobia is what they call it. It is when you cannot leave your house. So, what did I have to do for disability? GO to their doctors. Yep. And if you didn't go then they automatically denied you. ***? So, by going (which I had to do) it "proved" to them that I am able to leave the house. SO, that fact that I was heavily medicated and couldn't have stayed awake any longer than the testing took did not matter at all.
I just got the denial letter the other day. So angry and frustrated. They said that I was perfectly able to do something less "mentally challenging". Oh, so I am stupid now. Lol.
People dont' understand any kind of sickness or disabilty unless they have it. Or, at least that is what it seems. I get no sympathy either. On top of the not being able to walk, pain, nausea, weakness, rage, etc. I get the anxiety and depression as well. Good fun.
So, anyway, I am so sorry that you have to go in there. Just make sure when you go in there that you ask her/him if you can get them every 2 or 3 years. If you only have 1 sexual partner with no history of sexually transmitted disease then they should be able to do that for you. At least, I hope so!