I got sick after being married for only 18 months. Like, CanjunGrl, I honostly don't think I would still be with my husband... if he had been the one w
ho had gotten sick. But my husband doesn't believe me when I say that.
After about 4-5 years, we separated for 10 months - at my insistance. I really wanted him to just let me go and for him to get a real life with a real person that he could do real things with. And I just wanted to sleep.
Instead, he bought me a house with no stairs.... he studied Fibromyalgia, massage, Lyme disease, etc. He made me a "massage table". He called me everday. He made sure I had groceries.... he did everything for me and begged me to come back.... and so I did. THAT was THE BEST decision I ever made.
Everyday he does the best he can.... and most days I fall very short of what he truly deserves. I am very lucky and am very much in love with my husband.
A small group of committed citizens can change the world-it's the only thing that ever has.-M. Meade