Posted 6/25/2015 3:15 PM (GMT -7)
My take on this is that your relationship can't be over, since you're living in the same house.
Until you're living in separate houses, and you no longer see her, you have a relationship.
It's kind of like a divorce. If you were married, and you got a divorce from your husband, would you want to continue living together?
I think your letter might just feed into the whole situation, and it may antagonize her.
You could always try therapy, either for yourself, or for both of you.
Is the abuse mental, if you know what I mean?
Have you considered living somewhere else?
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