As you can see, 'Multi' you are far from alone. I too have struggled with my husband not understanding and being hyper critical of what I was doing - until he saw that I was truly healing.
Do feel free to come here, where there is understanding of not only your illness, but of not being understood, and vent, and find support.
There is no point in being confrontational in any way - neither of you need that. But what if you could ask for 6 months to try your way? Do you think that would help? Of course, I'm not saying you will be well in 6 months and if that's the only proof he would accept, that may not be a wise thing to do.
Just know that we are all here and all behind you in your search for your health.
May you both know peace in your house again soon.
Herb only treatment for Lyme & Bart ended 12/11 - no active symptoms for 2 yrs -Herb only treatment for Babesia ended 12/12www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=30&m=2977364
Had Lyme, Bart, Babs, RMSF, Ehrlichia, Myco, Anaplasmosis, EBV
New Lyme case 8/2014 - Healed 1/31/15 - unknowingly had Asymptomatic Babs and Asymptomatic Bart, being treated now though (2/2016)