Did nothing but put you to sleep!!! That would certainly help me at times!
I think there are a LOT of things going on. First, your introverted personality type can make it difficult to process trauma, certainly childhood trauma that you might not have fully dealt with. So, I think it's pretty smart to delve into that at some point in your life - I think it would be quite helpful and you'll be able to manage other current-life issues better. I know some people function with a "leave it in the past" attitude but I don't think it's holistic or all that healthy.
However, the wrong kind of psychoanalysis can be problematic.
As can psychosomatic drugs!
AND... you're already overwhelmed w/ Lyme & Co and tx so now might not be the best time for any of that, anyway.
In fact, I agree w/ your husband that it sounds like you're herxing w/ neuro-psycho symptons that result from neurotransmitter imbalances. These imbalances can be produced by disruption in gut biome (pretty common w/ our tx since we're taking abx and antimicrobials, sometimes creating yeast/fungal overgrowth, sometimes impacting how our food gets broken down, etc.)
Also, some of these infections can create neurotoxins - these need to be eliminated from the body, which many of us don't do well in a healthy state and this gets worse when we're ill and treating so aggressively. This is a good reason to incorporate a very effective detox protocol AND incorporate a good gut binder.
I have made significant progress with my neuro-psych sx with binders and Nutramedix Pinella and burbur tinctures. I also made a lot of progress with yeast/fungal overgrowth, which was also causing these sx.
Hope this is helpful -