I've had all kinds of issues with eating, and while I've very definitely had the hot flush after eating that lasts for a while, I usually also have bloating along with that - but not the burning eyes. I would get burning eyes as a 'regular' symptom that would just last all day, not connected with eating in any way.
Just to be sure - is it possible that you have food allergies? I'm (very highly) allergic to soy, which is in everything practically - and I was getting 'dosed' with my allergen several times a day without realizing it (because it's in everything!!!). This is a possibility, although I don't know if it's likely with those symptoms.
It's possible that the reason you feel better when you go to bed after eating is that digestion relies solely on the parasympathetic nervous system, which is the one that determines if we are in "fight or flight" mode, or if we are in the 'rest and digest' mode. When we are relaxed and laying in bed, our parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest) takes over and digestion is much easier on the body.
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