Fatigue was always a separate symptom from sleep for me. I had days where all I could do was lay on the couch without even the energy to read or watch anything. It's usually a herx that passed but recently I found it was related to my blood pressure dropping very low (systolic over diastolic) and I had to adjust some doses for that. If you're starting a new treatment it may be worthwhile to check that you're not having any issues with your blood pressure/heart.
After always being the one to do everything for my family it's hard to ask them to do things for me but I remind myself that this is what I've been trying to teach my kids. The book The Five Love Languages describes 'acts of service' as one of the things that we do to demonstrate love. I do laundry, make snacks, and bring my kids things as an act of love and when I'm sick they can reciprocate in kind. I find reframing things in my mind makes it easier for me to be on both sides of the equation. It's still hard not to be the provider though as that's part of my identity
I love the idea of sleeping under the stars.
Wishing you an easier time with treatment soon.
Bulls eye rash August 2013
Started treating with Buhner herbs July 2017
Treating Borellia, Babesia and Bartonella as of November 2017