I agree on "don't sweat the small stuff" mentality. I agree with more than we disagree.
But I don't agree with the "don't give a f*#* attitude" and being "somewhat cold" in order to be healthy. No thanks.
Im using "shop talk" here like I would with the guys. And you know what? Its pretty common for women in real life not to "get this" and look to far into it, as women in general (i'm generalizing), are more emotionally driven than most men.
But you have to acknowledge there are people in life who are energy suckers for no reason, in work or personal life. There may be self made drama in their life too, again, for no apparent reason other than attention or ego. Not talking about
sick people or those fallen on hard times.
The "cold people are happy" reference is just an observation, partially from the many jobs ive had. Didnt say I like it.
Any guy who's worked in traditional mens jobs, or even competed in "mens" sports will know exactly what i'm referring to.
The world can be perceived different between the genders, partially since our traditional social roles and expectations are also different despite being "equal" in modern times.