Hi, Thanks for joining us here. You are certainly not crazy and we all here know exactly what you are going through. I have been a sufferer for 19 yrs, I am 29yrs old. Every day headaches and migraines and pain killers don't work for me either, not even narcotics. Wait and see what the neurologist says, it could be just stress. If a few drinks help it could be the case. A drink for me gives me a bad migraine within 10 mins of drinking it so I definately can't touch alcohol. Make sure that you mention to the Dr that after a few drinks it does seem to take the pain away a bit.
Sorry that I can't offer anything else to you apart from we understand and feel free to post your concerns here. We are in the ssame boat. Let us know what he/she says when you see them.