I am so sorry to hear that sandra. I can't imagine what it is like to have to be the one(s) watching someone suffer with the head pain. My ex (of 4 years) said that he always used to feel so helpless and our relationship was so strained because he never knew what to do and felt like he wanted to help but had no idea what to do and sometimes felt like I wasn't doing all I could because I was trying to "tough it out" (by not running straight to the ER etc) He also got sick and tired of me being sick and tired....he also got tired of the doctors and medications and everything else. Needless to say, we weren't meant to be together. I guess my point to all this is that I am glad you are there and understanding for Andy. I am sure he appreciates it even if he doesn't say it as often as he should....Lord knows I didn't tell him how much I appreciated it at the time. I know I was hard to put up with. (not as hard as he made it out to be!!! ha ha)
I have had some of my worst times lately....I can relate-not sure how much more I can take....and its affect my mood, job etc. Ug!
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