By the way - Happy Belated Birthday!!!!! I know exactly how you felt, because I was the same way on Christmas last year. I bought frozen foods and a pre-cooked turkey (first time in 35 years of marriage!), had my daughter heat them up, and I spent the afternoon in bed. And we couldn't even eat in the dining room, because I had put all the decorations on the dining room table to see what I had, then only had the strength to decorate with half of them - the rest stayed right there on the table until after Christmas. Don't be discouraged - you WILL feel better, and next year's birthday will be a doozy!!!!