My boyfriend has MS and has in the past 5 years been relatively symptom free.
Recently he relapsed and in amongst our discussions he has admitted that he has been using viagra for the last 2 months
I immediately looked to blame myself and he tells me its nothing to do with me! I wanted to some advice from a males perspective to know how to handle this...what should I say, how should I react, how can I support him, how can I reassure him that this isnt an issue etc..
I have no issues with the use of viagra if he feels he needs it - however I dont think he does. The very occassional lack of performance has coincided with booze - and so a very normal, expected lack of performance which isnt MS related in my opinion!
He says he doesnt feel like a man and finds it difficult to discuss....
can anyone shed any light on how they have successfully dealt with this sensitive issue.