I'm sorry you have to go through this, but am happy that your little girl is going to be okay.
My heart goes out to you both.
Have you tried calling the different ostomy companies and telling them about
your situation? They can send you free samples, so you can find the appliance that works best for your daughter.
Please keep us posted on what you find out and how she's doing.
Dx'd Crohn's in '99 at 28. Proctocolectomy and ileostomy in '06.
Disease-free, medicine-free, and very thankful to be healthy again :)