Because of where my bag is , Ostomy next to belly button, to me it looks like I have a major bulge all the time and I think everyone can see it.
I was talking to someone that I hadn't seen since early last year, she says "Your looking so much better then you did last time I saw you"
I explained about my operation and how much better it is since my colostomy.
She says " You have a colostomy bag?" ( Moment of happieness ) " I just thought you were getting fat" ( AAAAAARRRRRGGGGGG! )
LOL oh well keep smiling!
* I think it may be time for a colorful metaphor*