If she says she still loves you despite all that, believe her. We usually have more hangups about
our bags than our partners do. Most often, they're just glad we're alive and well and able to be with them - they understand that mishaps can happen.
WE'RE the one's who worry about what they'll think - usually that worry is all for nothing - you'll find that usually, they don't worry even a quarter as much as we think they will - in this case IT REALLY IS all in our heads!
I have had an ileostomy for 32 years now due to UC.
Moderator of the Ostomy Forum
I'm not a complete idiot - some parts of me are missing!
Post Edited (Shaz032) : 6/21/2008 11:55:27 AM (GMT-6)