Things will get easier. I had my surgery 4 mos. ago. I didn't have any complications but I had a rough road (6 long years) before my surgery. I too am on a continuous restricted diet---indefinitely, but I will take this compared to what I have been through. I do see a kinesiologist biweekly and have changed my diet to include many organic foods and I also use essential oils ---you can look up info on them. I have never been healthier than I have been since my surgery. I have people--even my other drs. tell me how healthy I look. it's amazing how being able to go to the bathroom more than once a month can make a difference in your life. Do not give up, I too am a teacher so I know how exhausting it is. I went back to work after just 6 weeks and continue to be extremely tired, especially by the end of the week. I don't do anything extra like exercise or even go for walks due to the energy it takes, but each week I find myself stronger although there is no pattern to my bowel habits. I am down to 5-8 a day... I do drink pure coconut water for dehydration, this works much better than gatorade and other drinks. Do keep you chin up... things will continue to get better. Before you know it, this will be just a distant memory and you will be a much healthier person.
You will be in my prayers,