You are so not being lazy, you just had MAJOR surgery! I was told not to lift anything over 10lbs for 6 weeks, you don't want to get a hernia on top of everything.
When my boys were 3 and 10 months I was in the hospital for a month for a UC flare and couldn't see them because they had chicken pox! I thought I would die! When I got home I had missed my youngest's first steps and was so afraid that he wouldn't remember me, but after a couple weeks, it was momma this and momma that
Give yourself a break, it's not your fault you are laid up right now. Before you know it, you will be lugging him every where you go!
Originally diagnosed with CD in 1991
Now saying "Undetermined Colitis"
3 step Jpoucher as of 4-15-08