Because of where my pouch is I have been having alot of problems with pants and belts. I found the solution! I wear womens maternity pants now. I wear longer style t shirts or shirts that dont have to be tucked in and no one is the wiser. Being male it is strange shopping in the maternity dept. but I take my wife with me so that helps. If you want to try it go to goodwill or the like and buy a used pair. I miss not having front pockets but I am getting used to it.
First time I tried on a pair my wife and bother were there as I went back into the changing room I asked them " Do these pants make my butt look big?"
They both almost split a gut laughing about it the rest of the day, LOL
No matter what we do keep trying to find the humor. I do!
* I think it may be time for a colorful metaphor*