Thanks to everyone here, I appreciate it...She is here now, and today I am going to rest and prep, pack and meditate. Luckily I will be out of it for the first few days...then the difficulty will start. I decided to have my minister friend over as much as possible - she is like a vampire with that cross staring her in the face and backs away! hehehe (just kidding).
Wish me luck, I am going to need it as it is a very complex surgery.
love to all