I agree with getting another opinion. I also am concerned that he's against the permanent ileo...finding another doctor may be just what you need. I would go as far as finding what hospital a different doctor (one you've researched and found) would be on call for, and go to that hospital's ER, that way you're seen by this doctor immediately. If that's possible.
I hope you're able to find some sort of soothing techniques!!!!
: ) Robin
29 year old Mommy of an amazing 2 year old and Wife for 3 years!
Dx-May 2007 Moderate/Severe Pancolitis - failed all medications
Proctocolectomy w/ permanent ileostomy on 02/06/09!!!
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