your leak, sometimes they happen, probably just a random occurence, they usally happen at night, and at first or right after changing a system, it takes a while to get it down.
Im so sorry about your dad, thats so scary, i cant say i empathize but i do sympathize. And i'm glad your dad listens to you! Suprisingly my dad is the same with me and my mom, about medical stuff, only, thats the only thing he listens to me about, or electronics.
I def know how it is to feel alone though! After surgery,my husband went back to work, my son was with mygrandma, my mom and sis were in school, my dad was home sometimes, but he isnt much of a visitor, lol. My aunt did come over some, but i had no social life at all, because i had none before surgery. And i couldnt work because of healing and such. My best friend lives in texas, and the other people i am closest too at that timelived in wi, and fl. So it was really hard, even though i had the people here who are awesome and those people to text. After a while, i started workign at the fish camp like 1 day a week, and that helped sooo much! i just kind of made myself get out there.
if you can, get out and volunteer or something, get a job one day a week, track down old friends on fb, just to talk to, that helps some. Or talk to me on fb, i love to talk,lol.
good luck with your dad i will pray for him!
UC for 8 years, before finally kicking its butt and having a permanent ileostomy April 17 2007!
-I have gone to find myself, if i get back before i return, keep me here-
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