i use a belly band from motherhood maternity, and its not very tight, just holds it against me. It can be tight, that wont hurt anything, but you will have to empty a lot more often.
I only wear the belt when i wear certain clothes though.
UC for 8 years, before finally kicking its butt and having a permanent ileostomy April 17 2007!
-I have gone to find myself, if i get back before i return, keep me here-
No matter what kind of day you are having, take five minutes to sing loudly and dance like a fool!