Snuggle, 13 days is still early days, very early days. Just take it easy because I bet you are overdoing it. Rest and let your body heal, slow down on adding new foods, increase water intake, walk alot, but slowly, take pain medicine to help with the pain, and if the pain gets worse, please call your doctor.
Diagnosed w/colonic inertia, obstructive defecation syndrome, anismus, rectocele, and intussusecption
2005-hysterectomy w/pelvic prolapse repairs
2010-subtotal colectomy, rectopexy, and temporary diverting loop ileostomy. Parastomal hernia discovered in November, so more surgery, probably end ileostomy with relocation of stoma.