Great to hear from you Supernova. I had been wondering how you were doing.
I like wearing tight tops too. I have some wraps made by Comfizz (out of England... but ship to the US) that do a great job of concealing, but I imagine these are similar to the Ostomy Secrets ones.
I find that layering two tank tops workswell. Also, since a lot of tops are longer nowadays, I find if I don't pull them straight down and let them bunch up ever so slightly around my waist area, I am able to hide the ring a bit. Another option is to just stretch your top out slightly around that area a little bit when you put it on. This prevents it from clinging so much, while still maintaining a fairly tight look.
My stoma is pretty low though. I wear mid to low rise jeans, and it sits just under the waistband, but because my pants aren't super snug there, and more hang on my hip bones, it doesn't really affect the flow or press on my stoma that much. Because of this, most of my pants sort of conceal the ring as well.
-Officially diagnosed with UC in 2006, though had symptoms since 1999.
-Had mild/moderate symptoms continuously until severe flare in autumn 2010 which required 2-week hospital stay
-Took Asacol, Rowasa, Canasa and Prednisone to manage flares but meds stopped working
-Tried 1 infusion of Remicade but had excruciating joint pain and discontinued
-Had permanent ileostomy surgery 11/8/2010