Um, I'd cancel that wings and halo order (or put it on hold for a REALLY long time) and find a new doctor. Your question was reasonable, and if she didn't know the answer, she could have told you that and talked about what she was going to do to find out....
Did you talk to a surgeon or a gi doc?
Are you at a teaching hospital? Can you go to one?
Sorry you've been through so much. With such serious, life threatening issues, you need a doctor who is helpful and who you can trust. Where are you?
Hope something works out for you soon, so sorry you've had to deal with so much.
48 years old, female.
2004 dx indeterminate colitis. Back and forth between Crohn's and UC dx. Many drugs, minimal success.
2010-11 Crazy skin and eye complications, high fevers, bad flaring. Out of good drug options, tired of scary drugs.
Feb 2011 -- proctocolectomy with permanent ileolostomy; abscess, blood clot. Still healing, still glad for the surgery