Big party no outfit :s

Not sure where you live but this time of the year so many of the stores are carrying adorable summer clothes. I would go more for a low v-neck style plunge for the sexy look but have a bit of a gathered free falling bottom part of the dress. Also go for a shorter style which is sexy too. Also the shoes you pick will add to the sexyness of the outfit. If you can find something looser like that for the lower 1/2 it will make it less self conscious for you and make it a lot easier to go to the ladies room to empty the pouch as well.

I just got 3 adorable dresses at Kohls (granted I am a lot older than you I am sure) but one of them I would categorize as a sexier type style. The shrug sweaters are great for a lot of these dresses if the a/c is a bit too cold and you need something stylish to go with the dress but keep you from freezing. Good Luck.

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Wife of 64 yr old male suffered with UC & in May 06 had a severe flare & hospitalized 6 days...various prednisone treatments leading to steroid dependence and osteopenia, 12 asacol, 200 mg Imuran, failed remicade infusions Jan-May 2010 Dependence on pain meds. Made decision 6/10 to have surgery which was on 12/17/10 (total proctocolectomy & ileostomy - unable to have the j-pouch) & now pain free

i bought a lot of pretty dresses, sort of like prom dresses, from JcPenneys and Macys, and a small boutique. I just wore a belly band and it didn't show at all.
They are all short and have spaghetti straps, my "frog princess" dress (that's what i call it) is pretty much backless and almost strapless. It's pretty sexy, i think anyway.
good luck!

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UC for 8 years, before finally kicking its butt and having a permanent ileostomy April 17 2007!
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