I went to see my dr. on Tuesday and he addressed my fears. He told me not to worry about blockages & adhesions since it is rare for them to cause problems. Also, my next appointment is in Dec for my pre-op which I am very excited to say the least. He said if he can't close it through the stoma site b/c of the scar tissue, he will go through my scar where my wound was and do it that way. He also said that there is a slight chance I will wake up with the pouch which was very good to hear. I guess that's as good as a guarantee as you can get. He was quite happy regarding my wound healing. When I transferred to him, my wound was 20 cm by 15 cm. or maybe 15 x 20. It was large. Now, it's only as wide as my finger nail and maybe 6 inches long and shrinking each day. If that's the size of my scar, that's ok. My doc wants to give me a skin graft anyway, but I hope it shrinks more so I wont need it.
Thanks AnotherUCwife for your words of wisdom. I stress about everything and even with my doc saying theres a slim chance of having the bag forever, I still worry. It's just my personality.