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kiptyn
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Posted 10/22/2015 9:15 PM (GMT -7)
I met with a surgeon at University of Chicago yesterday for a surgical consult. Low-grade dysplasia was found in a recent colonoscopy and I wanted to get an understanding of surgery even though no one thinks it time - yet.

The surgeon told me that he didn't recommend a J-pouch for me because he's found that patients with well-controlled UC have a lower quality of life with a J-pouch. The UC patients who have surgery because they're in the bathroom 10-20 times a day, in pain, etc. love the J-pouch because their quality of life was so poor beforehand. Someone like me who goes once a day, no pain, eats anything I want, etc., would be unhappy.

Has anyone heard this? Anyone else with mild UC choose an ostomy for this reason?

He also told me that he suspected I had Crohn's, not UC, and that would be another reason for a permanent ileostomy. It makes we wonder if he told me about the supposed decreased quality of life to make me feel better about Crohn's preventing me from getting a J-pouch.

Thanks.
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Posted 10/22/2015 9:35 PM (GMT -7)
Sound about right to me. I waited a long time for surgery for exactly that reason. My UC was well controlled, even in full remission, until it wasn't. Even after I started going back downhill I had to calculate my current frequency and discomfort with the frequency and discomfort I was told by family members that I would experience with a Jpouch for the first several years.

So I waited. It wasn't until the unbearable pain, trips to the hospital, and frequency increased to over 6-8 times a day that I decided to have surgery. Otherwise, I would have kept trying to manage my UC. Life with a Jpouch is no fairytale. It's just hopefully much better than the nightmare of UC. It's all relative.

I had a nurse tell me something interesting. She said that it made her sad that people considered surgery as the final option and waste so much time suffering - especially because she has witnessed so many happy Jpouchers. I haven't completed the final surgery yet, so I can't speak on that. However, just judging by the agony of the first 2 surgeries over the past 9 months - there is no way I would have done this unless it was absolutely necessary. But I hear differently from others who went straight to surgery right after being diagnosed. To each their own...

And yes, the story will be much different if you don't have UC. My biggest fear has always been that we will eventually find out that I have Crohns and all this would have been pointless. So maybe focus on figuring that out first and don't worry so much about 'to Jpouch or not to Jpouch' right now. You will have plenty of time to explore all of your options once you have an accurate diagnosis.
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Posted 10/23/2015 6:01 AM (GMT -7)
The surgeon told me that he didn't recommend a J-pouch for me because he's found that patients with well-controlled UC have a lower quality of life with a J-pouch.

This makes total sense. If you go from 25 excruciating BMs a day to 6 painless ones, of course the latter is gonna seem like heaven by comparison. But to a person who was only having 1BM a day, it's gonna be a bum deal.

The trouble with me is I have a long memory and so I remember the early days of my Crohn's quite well when I was only going about 3x a day. To me, what I'm having now is infinitely worse than that. Even the ileostomy was worse than that. I'm comparing these things to early Crohn's - don't get me started on what it was like pre-Crohn's! (1 solid glorious BM a day, if you must know.)

Anyway, to try and answer the question, I was somebody who really hated having an ostomy to begin with. But now I think there's a lot to be said for having an ostomy over having a j-pouch or (what I've got) ileorectal anastomosis. I looked up studies on IRAs and I went through them quite carefully: cannot be bothered digging up any now, but the vast majority reported being satisfied, 75% still had their IRA at the 10-year-mark, etc. These were older studies, too, when there were fewer treatments for IBD in general and surgery probably wasn't quite as refined. Long story short, it didn't DO me any good. I really wonder about some of these studies: the eligibility criteria, parameters used to define "satisfaction", etc.

Basically, the satisfaction rates in studies don't seem to match up with satisfaction rates online.

Frankly if I had mild UC you couldn't get me to have a j-pouch for love or money. If I had low-grade dysplasia I'd choose the surveillance option. If it came to surgery - knowing what I know now, I think I would go for an ostomy.
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Posted 10/23/2015 6:30 AM (GMT -7)
What amazes me is the difference of opinions. Every surgeon will have his own opinion in what he thinks is best for the patient.

I suffered with ulcerative proctitis. In 2008, after suffering ten years with the disease, I was hospitalized for eight days....my symptoms...6 - 8 bowel movements every morning which were uncontrollable, bleeding profusely from the rectum and extremely high BP from the prednisone. After I was discharged from the hospital, actually feeling WORSE than before I went in, I sought out a colorectal surgeon here in south Jersey. He had the reputation of one of the "best" in this area. Well, if he were considered the "best" I would have cringed to visit the "worse". Long story short...his advice..."OH NO...NO NO NO surgery!!! You will be in worse shape! Now you go 6 - 8 times a day...well..after surgery you will be going at least 10 urgent times a day." This, coming from a surgeon!!! Needless to say, I left that office feeling very depressed. So, I struggled along for the next two years taking the advice from my GI doctor...trying Remicade then Humira..still prednisone dependent.

In 2010, I had reached the point of no return. You all know the rest. I found my surgeon online. He told me I was not a candidate for j-pouch, but, did I give a rat's behind? NO NO NO! I just wanted my life back! So, I have a permanent ileo. It works like a charm, but, he I now find out that even though it was my rectum which was badly diseased, he left in the anus and...according to my new surgeon (because my original one retired in 2013)...a bit of my rectum is still in there and now the UC is back in there. Are my symptoms as bad as they were prior to my operation? HELL NO! But, I do have some pressure and discomfort. I had extensive biopsies which show no dysplasia or cancer. The surgeon said ..no operation, it would be too much for me at this point. I am 69 yrs old and have good quality of life. I am seeking another opinion this Tues..just praying he is in agreement. Because, actually, if this UC can be controlled with rectal meds..I am all for that.
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Posted 10/23/2015 8:54 AM (GMT -7)
I didn't mind my end ileo at all. It was actually pretty easy. I could get great wear time and I didn't need an excessive amount of products or supplies. all I needed was wafers and pouches. With my loop, I need all sorts of supplies and I am changing every single day. I think it depends on your stoma. I guess with an end you're always going to have an easier time but if you get a bad stoma, it could be a nightmare like this one I have.

All that said, I don't desire to buy supplies for the rest of my life. I would prefer not to have a bag connected to my body. I don't like emptying at all and the reality is that you can empty the bag 4-6x a day. What is the difference if you empty out of your butt or out of a bag? I actually find the bag a little more difficult and messy. Granted the loop is much harder than the end because the output can be pure liquid at times.

Good luck. Feel free to ask me questions if you have them :)
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Posted 10/23/2015 10:53 AM (GMT -7)
Why does your doctor or surgeon think you have Crohn's? Have you gotten second and third opinions? Recognizing that misdiagnosis happens, I think it's best to get some indication as to what disease you're working with before you come up with a treatment plan.

If it is Crohn's, then I would try to stay away from surgery: However, if the low grade dysplasia was found in the colon, couldn't they just do a colon resection and take out the part where dysplasia was detected?

If you get more opinions that indicate UC, then I would lean toward surgery given your age. If you were 90 years old, then leave it be; but why not take care of it now while you're still young when colectomy might be the most pragmatic and safest decision for your health?

The decision between ostomy or jpouch is personal preference. Like NSSG, I didn't want to purchase supplies and have a bag attached to my body for the rest of my life, so I opted for a jpouch. You could go through step 1 of 3 to try out how you like living with an end ileo to see what it's like.
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suebear
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Posted 10/23/2015 11:15 AM (GMT -7)
Well I disagree with his opinion. My frequency, although higher than with a colon, is not painful and it's as quick and easy as urinating. But yes, if you have Crohn's it is best to go with a permanent ileo.

Sue
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Posted 10/23/2015 12:21 PM (GMT -7)
I don't agree with his opinion either. But, everyone is entitled to their own. A different surgeon would have a totally different opinion than that one. It's what makes the world go round. You have to make the best educated decision possible on the info you get. That's why it's important to get second and third opinions.

CD is a different ball game. You don't want a j pouch with Crohns. But if it comes down to you having UC and the dysplasia takes a turn for the worse and colon removal is recommended, then I would opt for a j pouch over an ostomy. Just my personal opinion based on my experience.

PS- I had a GI who was stuck on the thought that I had CD. I ended up with a new GI doc who confirmed that I indeed had UC and I had j pouch surgery. Make sure you get ALL the proper testing done to rule CD out. Get a new GI if you have to.
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atwoodt
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Posted 10/23/2015 2:07 PM (GMT -7)
OP, check out this article:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2709047/?tool=pubmed

It states *"A study of 1895 patients suggested that quality of life and quality of health following IPAA [j-pouch surgery] was similar that of the general population."*

In case you do have UC and go the jpouch route :)
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Posted 10/23/2015 3:38 PM (GMT -7)
Given how little most doctors care about side-effects or quality of life, god knows why anyone would trust what they have to say about post-surgery experiences. Basically, as long as your labs are good and you're not about to keel over in front of them, you're doing "fine" in most doctors' eyes. Yes, I'm being cynical, but it's cynicism gained after 15 years of experience.

CD isn't all THAT different to UC either. There've been plenty of people with UC who've had a miserable time with their j-pouches. They shouldn't have done - they don't have Crohn's. But they have.
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Posted 10/24/2015 4:39 AM (GMT -7)
I would completely agree with your surgeon's opinion. My 1st symptoms (diarrhoea) of IBD appeared on 13th July 2012. I then spent the next two weeks in bed thinking I had some sort of fever with piss, crap and blood coming out of every orifice. I had my colectomy surgery on the 29th July after my colon basically fell apart. I never experienced the long term suffering of UC/Crohns. After I had recovered my surgeon suggested j pouch surgery as an option. I took months to decide, getting as much information as I could but in my head it always came back to the frequency of toilet visits with a j pouch. I ignored any complications of a j pouch and asked myself "If I had a perfectly functioning pouch, how would I feel?" Going to the toilet 5 times a day just wasn't good enough for me so I decided to stick with my ileostomy.
If you read most j pouchers stories they almost always end with "Its better than UC!" I don't have that comparison so in MY experience, a j pouch was the wrong option.

After I told my surgeon he mentioned that patients who don't experience the longer term effects of bowel disease do struggle with a j pouch. He was happy with my decision to stick with the ileostomy.
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Posted 10/24/2015 9:37 AM (GMT -7)
I was in the bathroom emptying at least 5x a day with my ileo. I don't understand how that is any easier than going 5x with a jpouch? With an ileo 5x and you need to buy supplies and wear a bag, that's more inconvenient in my book. I had no problems with my end ileo, but it wasn't a walk in the park, like having a healthy colon either. You still have to empty quite often. I bet youre in the bathroom just as much as people with a jpouch. I will tell you when I get reconnected... that's barring complications of course. If you end up with pouch problems, sure, an ileo is much better.
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I don't know, even though I did have severe disease, it was (now) many years ago and it's not how I evaluate my current quality of life. In other words, when I was really sick I could barely eat and I went to the bathroom 20 times per day. By your surgeon's logic, I would be happy with a j-pouch where I could eat a little and only go to the bathroom 10 times per day, because that's an "improvement." But... I wouldn't be. To me that would kind of suck!

I evaluate my quality of life now based on whether I can do the things I enjoy and be successful in my career (I can), and whether I have pain or discomfort (I rarely do).

If you're going to need surgery eventually, it's not about comparing your post-op quality of life with your pre-op quality of life, it's about comparing the post-op QOLs of different procedures. While your surgeon may think that people are unhappy with BM frequency with the j-pouch, I think there's a similar argument to be made that people can be unhappy with skin problems and pouching challenges of an ileostomy (not to mention the psychological effects, which I imagine can be more intense for people who were 'healthy' prior to surgery). I personally don't think there's a right or wrong choice, just a best choice for you.
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Posted 10/24/2015 5:07 PM (GMT -7)

letthepeoplesing said...
If you read most j pouchers stories they almost always end with "Its better than UC!" I don't have that comparison so in MY experience, a j pouch was the wrong option.

Exactly. The sort of people who have j-pouches are the ones who, by definition, have the severest cases of UC.

But imagine never having had UC and going straight to a j-pouch: I'd be distraught. The same would be true of an ileostomy, to be fair. I'm honestly not sure what I would have found worse. I think in some ways an ileostomy is easier to manage, but all the faffing about with supplies pisses me off. A j-pouch would be just like having mild Crohn's to me - I can't see any difference, other than I had fewer BMs a day with mild/early Crohn's.

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Posted 10/24/2015 5:20 PM (GMT -7)
jpouch for me would be great as long as I don't have urgency. I guess going 8x a day isn't a walk in the park but as long as it's not urgent, i don't care that much.

I guess it's true, if you took my 20 year old, healthy coloned self and gave me 8x a day loose, I'd be like "OMG, what's happening to me" but if you gave me an external bag, i would have been mortified as well. I was a very vain and clueless person back then. Either way, I would have been very unhappy, but now, all I want is a decent amount of time to get to the toilet. Beyond that, i don't care so much.

For ileo bag, i have a lot of problems, I don't like when it fills. I don't like when it's full of gas. I actually won't eat when I have places to go sometimes to keep it flat. With the loop, I have to go to the toilet right after i eat or it FILLS up FAST. Id rather go to the toilet with it in my j-pouch so i am not trying to hide a pouf on my side. I have been able to hide it because i empty every time i am in a bathroom but that's definitely not ideal. I don't want to wear loose clothes forever.

I guess my assessment isn't that fair because I didn't have so many propbems with m end ileo, it's just this loop that is hell. The end i could eat out without having to empty.
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Posted 10/24/2015 6:14 PM (GMT -7)
Anyone who has a permanent stoma is going to end up with an end ileostomy, not a loop one - loops are temporary. If you're gonna make a comparison with a j-pouch, it should be with an end ileostomy only.

Most of the problems I had with mine were psychological. I just didn't like dealing with boxes of supplies, worrying about when to order new supplies, worrying about when they would arrive, etc. It's a kerfuffle. Plus at the back of my mind there was the fear that society would collapse and I would be screwed: I wish I could say I was exaggerating, but I'm not particularly. I suppose it boiled down to having a stoma and being dependent on specialist supplies made me feel more vulnerable.

But things like gas, fast output, skin issues, etc. were rarely a problem for me. In the first year I would have to get up once a night to empty the bag - that dwindled to zero over time. If I compare that to what I'm going through now, all I can do is laugh. Hollowly. On the downside, I'm a stomach sleeper. Can't change that, so I had to adapt with an ileo.

I can't claim I ever loved having an ileo, but I do realise now there are worse things than having one. Like being reconnected and going through takedown hell.
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Posted 10/24/2015 10:20 PM (GMT -7)
Frankly, I've never heard of anyone with well-controlled UC having a colectomy for UC. For most people, it's more or less the treatment of last resort, when other measures aren't controlling the UC. I wonder where he found the population that inspired his statement.
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Judy2 said...
Frankly, I've never heard of anyone with well-controlled UC having a colectomy for UC. For most people, it's more or less the treatment of last resort, when other measures aren't controlling the UC. I wonder where he found the population that inspired his statement.

The people who are at risk of bowel cancer, I should think. (Most of whom won't have any form of IBD, but a few will have, like the topic creator.)
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Posted 10/25/2015 6:27 AM (GMT -7)
Thank you everyone! This discussion is so helpful.

1) I'm considering surgery because they found low-grade dysplasia which may put me at risk for cancer. It's still being investigated but if there's any risk, I'm doing surgery. I have a six-year old son and would hate myself if I developed cancer after having a chance to prevent it.

2). NSSG-you make a great point about emptying a J pouch vs. emptying a pouch. If I have to do both several times a day, why not pick the option that doesn't require supplies?

3) Pluot-you are so wise! I always love reading your posts. I think you make the best point. If I have to have surgery, I shouldn't be comparing the options with my QOL now. I should be comparing the QOL that each future option will give me. I don't think a perm. ileostomy would be bad but dealing with supplies and what sounds like a messy emptying process sounds less convenient. Also, I pee a million times a day so I'm in the bathroom all the time anyway.

There's still the issue of Crohn's vs. UC, risks of pouchitis, and whether it would be better for cancer prevention to have everything removed.

I think what I really need is a second surgical opinion. As I said, I don't feel I clicked with this surgeon and when making a major health decision, I need confidence that my decision-making partner is someone I like and trust.
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NiceCupOfTea said...
Anyone who has a permanent stoma is going to end up with an end ileostomy, not a loop one - loops are temporary. If you're gonna make a comparison with a j-pouch, it should be with an end ileostomy only.

Most of the problems I had with mine were psychological. I just didn't like dealing with boxes of supplies, worrying about when to order new supplies, worrying about when they would arrive, etc. It's a kerfuffle. Plus at the back of my mind there was the fear that society would collapse and I would be screwed: I wish I could say I was exaggerating, but I'm not particularly. I suppose it boiled down to having a stoma and being dependent on specialist supplies made me feel more vulnerable.

But things like gas, fast output, skin issues, etc. were rarely a problem for me. In the first year I would have to get up once a night to empty the bag - that dwindled to zero over time. If I compare that to what I'm going through now, all I can do is laugh. Hollowly. On the downside, I'm a stomach sleeper. Can't change that, so I had to adapt with an ileo.

I can't claim I ever loved having an ileo, but I do realise now there are worse things than having one. Like being reconnected and going through takedown hell.

lol, i've never minded supplies so much. I don't like the idea of needing them, especially if I have out-of-pocket costs, but the actual ordering and having them around I am okay with. I like trying new stuff, it's kind of fun. I get a sample and I look forward to giving it a shot. I always have extra products on hand. I don't like when I get down to 2 wafers, especially with this loop. With my end, I didn't care because I knew I would get 7 days. This thing I could ruin 2 wafers in a few hours. I need a full box on the shelf. I also usually have a few different items that I can use (one piece, 2 piece, different brands, mini, closed), sometimes I feel like wearing one thing over another. I get my items via fedex the day after I order so timing isn't an issue - unless it's something new and I need a "prescription", then it could be a few days. It's not fun with this loop because it's very active and I change way too often to play around, but with my end, I could try anything and it was no biggie because everything worked as intended.

I have thought about that, like "walking dead" situation, I would be doomed. I mean, how much can you stockpile and carry around? It would be crazy... luckily that is fiction and it's not going to happen.

What you're currently dealing with sounds like living with active UC and living with the end ileo is definitely way better. Not sure if the loop I have is though. Changing every day is a pain. I guess once I change, I usually get 24 hours, and 24 hours without worrying about pooping my pants is still better than active UC.
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I can say from my experience that it's a heck of a lot easier going to the bathroom with my j pouch than it was dealing with my ostomy...skin issues, leaks, ect. and and all the supplies it required. I am fairly sure I'd still feel that way even if I had my j pouch for another reason other than UC.
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kiptyn said...

3) Pluot-you are so wise! I always love reading your posts. I think you make the best point. If I have to have surgery, I shouldn't be comparing the options with my QOL now. I should be comparing the QOL that each future option will give me. I don't think a perm. ileostomy would be bad but dealing with supplies and what sounds like a messy emptying process sounds less convenient. Also, I pee a million times a day so I'm in the bathroom all the time anyway.

Agree on Pluot's wisdom.

The one factor that makes this point hard is evaluating risk with each option, because the QOL outcome is not certain with either choice, and the possible complications have different risks and different costs. In many ways your situation is harder emotionally than mine was -- I was so, so sick and had tried every drug. I didn't feel like I had much of a choice, and most likely having Crohn's, a J Pouch wasn't really an option either. So even though I've had a complications and extra surgery and limitations, I hold onto how sick I was, and how much better I am now (even if in some ways I still have limitations).

So, I think keeping in mind that you're having surgery because you have a young child and want to do whatever you can to be w/him is helpful.... and you'll make the best choices you can in the face of some uncertainty... and hope for the best, deal with anything that isn't quite the best.
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Posted 10/25/2015 3:46 PM (GMT -7)
it's not about comparing your post-op quality of life with your pre-op quality of life

To me that's precisely what I'm comparing it to. I don't see the point in comparing it to anything else. By definition nobody knows what the future will be, so how can you make plans based on something that might not turn out as predicted?

Oh no wait, I'm actually comparing my post-op quality of my life to my pre-IBD one. Why would I compare it to just before my op? Makes no sense; I wouldn't have had the operation in the first place unless my life was at stake. I didn't want it for love or money. I sometimes wish I hadn't gone ahead with it and let the Crohn's slowly kill me, my quality of life is so poor nowadays.

Surgery isn't always hunky dory. And don't say it's different because I had Crohn's. There's loads of people with UC who report serious problems with the j-pouch; they're just ignored and not taken into account.

#beyondtired #beyondfedup #beyondlonely #beyondpointless

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NiceCupOfTea said...
it's not about comparing your post-op quality of life with your pre-op quality of life

To me that's precisely what I'm comparing it to.

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#beyondtired #beyondfedup #beyondlonely #beyondpointless

The "it" in my post was referring to a logical approach to decision making. As I think we've discussed to death, your propensity for comparing pre-illness and post-op QOLs is most likely a symptom of your depression, not a rational way to approach decisions.
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You sound like my GI, tbh, always pinning stuff onto my depression and never once considering that maybe I have some pretty rational, or even purely physical, reasons to be chronically tired, low and fed up. They're called "Crohn's", last time I checked. And if it's not Crohn's, then it's some other form of IBD, but given my history it's probably Crohn's.

It's a nice way of subtly blaming the patient for bad outcomes though. It's not surgery which has failed them; they're just depressed!
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