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Stuck42Long
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Posted 6/19/2007 5:15 AM (GMT -7)
MICHELLE - OMG, I'm so sorry to hear that you're back in the hospital facing the possibility of ANOTHER surgery!!  I do hope they can find the root to your problem WITHOUT surgery.  Hopefully they're able to keep you comfortable during this time of pain and discomfort.  Please, please, keep us posted!!

NONNA - I also have an "OBSESSIVE" personality and I always think "the worst" when it comes to my bowel habits, especially since they've become fewer than in the beginning.  Like you said, even going thru the "bads" of the surgery, I would also do it ALL over again in a heartbeat!!

If having bm's every other day or so is what I have, it's at least better than pre-op and I'm thankful.  Yes, no one can understand or begin to comprehend what it's like to have a paralyzed colon and the obstacles we've had to overcome to be where we are today.

Please let me know if the apple and/or grape juice help you any OK?

Oh, you mentioned the MiraLAX making you feel bloated pre-op, it also has the same affect post-op (from my own experience).  I think I've pased more gas in the past week than I did immediately post-op and the first five months post-op combined - YUK!!!!!!!!  In fact, I was so excited when I didn't have the need or the urge to pass gas.

I do hope ALL are doing better - especially those having problems.  Please be sure and keep us posted!!


Robin

 

God is SO good - His blessings are endless! 

Trust in Him with all your heart!

Know He's in control over every situation you face!!

 

 

Post Edited (Stuck42Long) : 6/19/2007 6:20:48 AM (GMT-6)

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Posted 6/20/2007 5:05 AM (GMT -7)
Hi guys,
I am VERY frustrated, mad, angry, upset...
I am almost too tired of writing, but I thought I need to vent! I saw a surgeon today, mostly because I have been feeling much worse the past few weeks, and I thoght I´d ask him about a defecography and other tests.
Well, to keep it short, he listened to my story and said that he´d like to speak to the head surgeon of the clinic about my case. Unfortunately, this head surgeon was a doctor whom I had contacted abou two years ago when he was at another clinic. So it all started again: They kept on saying that I was still anorexic and that surgery would not help at all. They told me to eat normally again so that my body would get used to food again and everything would start working...They also said that havinga transit time of more than 144 hours and only going once-twice a month was normal when you are on tube feedings.
They said surgery could kill me and would only make everything worse. I should work out a regimen of laxatives and other procinetics.
I was sooo upset that I cried afterwards! At least my mom was with me and she did support me a bit, although i know she doesn´t really want me to have surgery either.
What is making me really angry is the fact that I didn´t go there to get surger straight away - I actually went there to ask them if they could do more tests because I just have been feeling sooomuch worse lately. I am not able to go at all, and even if I take 10 Dulcolax AND MOM, I am not able to actually eliminate anything. Since I have never had a defecography, I thought this might be a good idea, but the surgeon just looked at my stomach, examined it with his hands and said:" Well, you are constipated, but it´s not an ileus(obstruction)." GGGRRRRRR!!!
I am tired of going on like this, but I am also tired of seeing doctor after doctor after doctor...and everybody is against surgery and keeps on telling me to eat "normal" and use drugs.
Well, thanks for listening and I hope everybody else is doing better than I am.
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Posted 6/20/2007 7:42 AM (GMT -7)
Hi All,

 

Dana....I feel so sorry you are being trodded around these doctors and they aren't even supporting you with the advice they are giving you!!  Has anyone ever considered sending you to a nutricianist who could look at the "big" picture and recomend a plan?  Especially if the other docs won't listen.  A BIG HUG to you.  Please know you are being thought of and prayed for, try to hang in there.

 

 

My update, I found out through this whole ordeal that I am severely malnurished, due to the surgery, diarrea and lack of absorbtion of nutrients and protein.  My intestine is healing, I am beginning to feel much better. They started me  on TPN thru my pic line and they removed my ng tube yest.  Due to the glucose in the TPN, they have to monitor my blood sugars so I will have to be careful what I eat while

I'm on this stuff when I'm able to eat.  (I'm not diabetic) I have lost 7 lbs. while I've been in here.  I am still on my drip as well.  The doctors believe that my colon was so full and stretched for so long before surgery that my small intestine was affected and it is having a hard time taking over.  I pray I never have to go thru this again, I was seriously close to death, I don't ever want to feel this ill nor do I want anyone else to!

 

I'm hoping they will let me go home by the end of the week, I think they may let me eat something today.  Take care all of you.


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Stuck42Long
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Posted 6/21/2007 6:19 AM (GMT -7)
DANA - Big HUGS to you!!!  My heart goes out to you sweetie!!  I'm sure you are down in the dumps, feeling like no one is listening or willing to help you out!!!  Don't lose hope - I know that's easy for me to say, but maybe - just maybe, the time isn't right for you.  Michelle has a great suggestion in my opinion.  Maybe it is best to go another route at this point. 

Do any of the doctors overseeing your case now believe "eating" is in your near future?  Dana, this is a HUGE surgery and you need to be in optimal shape in preparation for it.  If your body is weak and undernourished....it's best to hold off until you are healthier!!!  Please take to heart what the doctors/surgeons are saying...this may be life threatening to you AND/OR make your situation even worse than it is right now.  Just look at what Michelle has been thru post-op (severely malnurished due to the lack of absorbtion of nutrients and protein).

MICHELLE - Nice to hear you're doing somewhat better.  Boy, you've sure been thru a lot!!!!  Big HUGS to you too!  I also pray that you NEVER have to go thru this again.  Being so sick and close to death.....that's scary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hope you're able to eat something soon and be home by the end of the week as well!!  I'm so blessed that I didn't have these problems because my colon was also stretched and full for a very long time (40 plus years).  Just recently I found out that my small intestine is on the "lazy" side (my transit time has decreased significantly).  Hopefully incorporating the MiraLAX back in to my daily routine will prove beneficial (so far so good). 

I hope ALL others are doing good and hope to hear from you soon!!!!

 


Robin

 

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Trust in Him with all your heart!

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Posted 6/22/2007 8:03 AM (GMT -7)

STUCK42LONG and SHELLYPOO: Thanks for your encouraging words :-)

I know this surgery is a big procedure and you should be in very good physical shape when you get it done.

WHat made me so upset is the fact that EVERY doctor seems to either think that I am still anorexic or they are too "scared" to take on my case( which of course they don´t admit).

I didn´t go to see this doctor to convince him to perform surgery on me. I just wanted to ask him why I have been feeling sooooo much worse lately and if I could get more tests done. FOr example, I have never ever had a defecography and I think this would be very important since I have a lot of problems with the actual elimination.

Even if there was a surgeon who would do surgery on me right now, I would not agree because I know I need to be in a better spot. Right now, my body couldn´t handle this. But I need to find a surgeon who is willing to help me in the long run, because one day I will be in a better position and hopefully more research is being done until then so that maybe they will have even found other options to treat this condition.

I know that Dr Lahr has performed surgery on people who also have dysmotility in other areas of the gut, but of course he is in the US, and I am here in Germany.

Thanks again for your compassionate words. 

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Posted 6/24/2007 7:43 AM (GMT -7)
Hi All,

I came home from the hosptal Friday morning but I was already having severe pain with nausea after only being home a short time.  I had eaten a little bit of solid food the day prior and that morning and lunch (small amount of oatmeal and then 1/2 a sandwich).  Home health came out to instruct on TPN and I was so sick I couldn't focus and then started throwing up while they were here.  My hubby called my doc and she said either be readmitted or see if home health could give me phenergan and morphine.  The company that would supply the drugs said it would be several hours so I opted to try a phenergan suppository and it didn't do anything...I had a very long and sick night.

 

Yest. I spoke with my doc and she said to see if they could bring the meds then and if not back to hospital.  She said no food for several days.  The home health nurse was able to get the company to bring the meds and I finally was able to rest.  I also changed the TPN from  12 hours to 20 hours running time because I had severe diarrea the night before as well as feeling restless and just "off".  The nurse also gave me a bolus of saline solution, I  was dehydrated.

 

Needless to say this is not over yet.  My doc doesn't know what to do, she now thinks it must be related to my MS and I must be in a big flare or the progression has affected my stomach and small intestine more.

 

I am feeling better having slept all night.

 

I am hungry but cannot eat but today I have to drink fluids as I am already feeling dehydrated.  I am off my Avonex shots until all this is straightened out.

 

Thanks for all your care and concern.


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Posted 6/24/2007 5:17 PM (GMT -7)
DANA - My heart really breaks for you!!  I cannot sit here and say I understand your situation, but I can tell you that I care and I wish you could find a doctor willing to at least run some tests - to give you some idea of what's going on!!!

I guess we take the doctors/surgeons for granted here in the USA.  Oh, there are those doctors that think constipation isn't an issue (been there), but when we do FINALLY find the right doctors, they're willing to run all the necessary tests and take it from there. 

My hope for you is that you begin to regain your strength and be able to eat

on your own very, very soon!! 

MICHELLE - I'm sure you must be very discouraged at this point.  I'm thinking about you and send you a HUG!!  I'm not familiar with MS but I'm sure this surgery caused the flare up and all these issues.  I hope nothing but the best for you and that things will begin to improve with each passing day.  Hopefully they will be able to pin point what's going on for your sake!!

Please keep us posted!!

 


Robin

 

God is SO good - His blessings are endless! 

Trust in Him with all your heart!

Know He's in control over every situation you face!!

 

 

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Posted 6/25/2007 11:27 AM (GMT -7)
Hi everyone, this is the first time i'm ever writing on one of these so i'm not sure how it works. i am scheduled to have a total colectomy July 31st and am starting to get nervous. i am 23 years old and have had pretty much every possible test leading up to this, including trips to the mayo clinic. i'm really nervous about what will happen after the surgery. can anyone tell me about changes in weight, bathroom etc? i'm worried that it will interfere with work and my social life but i know i need to have it done. also i heard you can gain weight? any help i'd appreciate it!!!!
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Posted 6/25/2007 6:25 PM (GMT -7)
Hi Everyone,
Shellypoo - I am so sorry you are having so many complications and hospital visits. I hope you improve soon. I can't imagine how you feel going in and out of the hospital so many times.

Rose3027 - Welcome. You will find a lot of information on this site. Everyone is so willing to help. From my own personal experience I lost 30 lbs within two weeks of surgery and holding. I go anywhere from 10 to 20 times per day and during the night. Depending on what I eat, how much, and fat content. Oh, I am ca. 14 weeks post op. I started walking about 2-1/2 weeks ago to and from work which is approximately 4 miles a day. I was in the hospital four days post op. I didn't use my morophine pump so the doctor discontinued it after two days, put me on Vicodin and I stopped taking it after about 5 days. I was up walking the next morning. After surgery my gut didn't hurt that much. My pain came from the gas under my gallbladder which ran up into the shoulder. Walking took it away. I had a drain for about 2 weeks. I took it home with me. My surgery was done lap. If you have more questions, just ask. Someone will answer you.
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Stuck42Long
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Posted 6/26/2007 6:04 AM (GMT -7)
RESA - Thanks so much for the info you supplied ROSE with!!  Great stuff to share!!!

ROSE - Welcome!!!  Like RESA said, this is an awesome place to gain information.  I personally think you should go back SEVERAL "parts" of this forum to get as much info and you possibly can.  Educating yourself and seeing all the different healing processes from everyone is very, very beneficial.  It is time consuming but well worth the time.

Your fears are well warranted - this is a huge surgey and recovery process.  Although we've all had the surgery (or most of us), you can and will see we're all different in our healing and recovery time.  You're very young and I think that is on your side!! 

My personal experience is that I felt like I was ran over by a train the first week post-op.  I don't mean for this to scare you - honesty is the only way to go here.  This is a HUGE surgery and somewhat lengthly recovery.  It was a good 12 weeks before I began to feel "normal" again and a full 16 weeks before all the soreness and tenderness went away in my abdomen.  My surgery was also done laparoscopic, I went home from the hospital on my fouth day post-op, I didn't have any drains to take home with me - as you can see - no one is alike - some here had longer hospital stays, some had more pain than others - the list goes on and on.  That's why I think you should go back to past "parts" of Totoal Colectomy and get as much info and you possibly can before surgery.

The bottom line here is that I would have this surgery again in a heartbeat, no questions asked!!!  It was worth EVERYTHING I went thru to get to where I am today.  My story goes all the way back to when I was 15 months old and I'm now 44.  My surgery was 11-09-06 and I'm down going anywhere from four to eight times a day to once, maybe three times a day - Sometimes only once a day.

My sugeon did advise me that once our small intestine gets used to playing the roll of the colon - the possibility of transit time could decrease which held true for me.  It takes anywhere from a full year or so for the body to completely heal and regain some type of normalcy. 

I lost 30 pounds within the first three weeks post-op - I've regained eight pounds back - somewhere in the 16 week post-op period - and I've been holding since.  In the beginning your appetite decreases and your tolerance for certain foods play a roll (not to mention the weight of the colon itself that's removed). 

Don't think of this surgery as "altering" your life in a negative way.  Yes, you may go to the bathroom several times a day for the first few months, but can you honestly say your social life is good at this point in the game?  If you're like the rest of us here, you're more than likely bloated and looking pregnant, not to mention the pain and discomforts of being constipation. as well as, all the toxins our bodies are retaining from a non-functioning colon.  We're literally sick because of constipation.

For 40 plus years I NEVER knew what "normal" was and I will ALWAYS gladly welcomed every bowel movement I have - no matter how many times a day I go.  This is what I consider a new lease on life!!!!!

Well, I guess I've rambled on enogh.  Like I said above, GO BACK to previous "parts" of the Total Colectomy thread where you will find a wealth of info.  If anything, go back to at least "parts 10 or 11"

I wish you all the luck and I hope you continue to post here.  This is a great place and the people are WONDERFUL!!!  We try to encourage anyone facing or going thru this and try to answer questions in a real and truthful way.   


Robin

 

God is SO good - His blessings are endless! 

Trust in Him with all your heart!

Know He's in control over every situation you face!!

 

 

Post Edited (Stuck42Long) : 6/26/2007 7:12:53 AM (GMT-6)

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Thanks so much for your reply! I think my biggest concern is having to go to the bathroom and not being able to hold it. Have you ever had any accidents? Also my surgery will be open, not lap, do you know if that makes a huge difference? What is your diet like now? I feel like i have a million questions and cant think of them right now. if anyone else has any information to share that would be great! i am going on vacation tomorrow (a much needed break before the surgery!) so i hope to have some responses to this today, thanks again, this support is great!
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Posted 6/27/2007 8:39 AM (GMT -7)
Rose- I had my total colectomy almost 8 weeks ago and it was "open".  I had an NG tube when I woke up from surgery and I now know that was a life saver, it kept me from being as nauseous.  One thing- the ng tube may make your ears hurt-it has both times I've had one.

 

For me, I had an "accident" in the hospital because all of a sudden in the middle of the night my bowels started to work (about day 4).  I bought panty style depends and also the extra long Kotex maxi pads (overnight) and the stayfree ecxtra long thin overnight.  You will need to wear some protection.  Make sure they put the disposable pads on your bed.  I lost 12 lbs. post op, I was not overweight to begin with.

 

The diet is to go slowwww...Start with starches (potatoes, rice etc..) pudding, soups.  Add other foods in as tolerated.  I still cannot eat icecream or red meat.  I was not lactose intolerant before surgery but seem to be now.

 

I continue to wear a pad everyday.  I really didn't have any accidents after i came home form surgery but I always felt like it was very urgent to go.  Right now I'm dealing with more serious bowel issues and have had many "leakages" and thank goodness for the pads!

 

An update-I'm still on TPN, no food until the end of this week.  I pray there will be no problems once I start eating again.  The surgeon still doesn't really know what is causing this, she feels either MS or something they haven't figured out.  I have a call in to the gI doc at the Univ. I saw here, his nurse told me he seems interested so maybe he has an idea.  I am still very tired and weak, still have diarrea dispite I'm only having an occasional popsicle or water!  I have gained back 4 lbs. so far. (I had lost 7 more in the hospital last week)


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Posted 6/27/2007 9:03 AM (GMT -7)
Hi Shelly,
Thanks for sharing. What is TPN? Do you think your experience is different because of the possibility of MS? I am about 125-130 pounds so i dont know if i will lose weight, i'm hoping if i do it wont be too much or i'll look scary. Why do you think you aren't able to eat yet? what is your scar like? i dont know how big mine will be but it is going vertically on my belly. How long were you in the hospital? sorry for all of the questions, thank again!
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Posted 6/27/2007 9:53 AM (GMT -7)
Rose,

TPN is an IV nutrician feeding, it goes directly into my vein.  I was in the hospital for 2 weeks recently and was malnourished due to my small intestine not absorbing nutrients and also I have had lots of watery diarrea.  I"m sure MS has played a role in my recovery.  The surgeon doesn't really think all this has to do with my colectomy, but it could be because my small intestine was so backed up from constipation before the surgery and it's having a hard time recovering.  Don't fear this...I am quite an oddity with most everything I have!

 

I was in the hospital for 9 days after the colectomy.  My scar is vertical and healed terrifically, it goes from sternum to below my hysterectomy scar.

 

My inability to eat is due to all this recent illness, I end up with a partial bowel obstruction, severe abd. pain, nausea and then bad diarrea.  I am going to start back tomorrow trying some soft/full liquid things and pray there are no problems.

Take care, I hope I answered you ok!


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Stuck42Long
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Posted 6/27/2007 4:30 PM (GMT -7)
Michelle - Thank you for giving Rose the information she's requested.  Also, thank you for letting her know that your MS may be playing a roll in your current situation.  Of course we do not know this for a fact, but your honesty is valuable!!

Oh, your immediate post-op "protection" advise is also good advise (actually, all your advise is good) :-) !!!!!

Rose - I'm very surprised that your surgeon hasn't advised you of what seems like a lot information you should know by now.  Have you had a chance to go back to past "PARTS" of the Total Colectomy thread?

There is one thing I've learned from posting here - EVERYONE is DIFFERENT in the recovery process.  Some heal much faster than others, pain is different for everyone, there's just so much information in the past posts that I think it will better serve you than just speaking to a few of us at such a close time to your surgery.  Maybe while you're on vacation you can read thru several of the past "PARTS" of this thread. 

I hope you have a wonderful vacation!!!


Robin

 

God is SO good - His blessings are endless! 

Trust in Him with all your heart!

Know He's in control over every situation you face!!

 

 

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Posted 6/30/2007 6:55 AM (GMT -7)
Hi everyone,

 

Please Read And Help If You Can. :-)

I have not posted in a while, but I have a question.  Does anyone have a problem with dehydration after your surgery?  I had a total colectomy and ever since, I seem to have a problem staying hydrated.  I do not have an excessive amount of loose stools a day (about 5-6), however, the doctors say that I am evacuating my electorlytes through my stools.  I was rushed to the hospital for the second time this year for a lack of electrolyes.  My potassium, magnesium, sodium, and blood pressure where so low that I went into cardiac arrest and was in the ICU on life support for 5 days.  The doctors did every test they could think of and could not find the cause of this illness.  They finally came to the conclusion that I was dehydrated from my stools.  I drink about 90 ounces of water or gatorade a day.  I am not sure if the doctor's theory of dehydration is accurate or not.  So I thought I would ask this forum.  Does anyone else have an elecrolyte embalance from your loose stools?


Thank you,

Amey

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Posted 6/30/2007 3:34 PM (GMT -7)
Hi Amey,

Unfortunately it is very easy for us to get dehydrated especially in this hot weather.  May I suggest that you drink Smart Water...it has electrolytes in it with no calories like the gatorade.  I had a touch of the flu 3 weeks ago and could not believe the hand and leg cramps I was getting because I dehydrated so quickly but after one bottle of the smart water, the cramps went away.  Hope this helps.

Phyllis

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Hello.  I recently found this site and am so thankful.  I am unable to have a bowel movement without doing a warm water enema four-five times, and I am scheduled to have colectomy surgery at Cleveland Clinic/Ft. Lauderdale in a month.  I am scared and cannot find hardly any info at all about it. 

 

Can someone tell me what the average sick time off work will be?  My doctor said that I would be in the hospital at least five days, and then need to stay in a hotel for five more days, as I live ten hours from the hospital, and cannot move so soon.

 

I am afraid to wake up from surgery and not know for sure how I am going to be.  Did any of you have the same nervous feelings?

 

I am younger and worry about having loose stools while at work.  Are they something that you are able to have advanced warning with, or are you on the run to get to the restroom?  Also, I am on a preventative for UTI's.  Does anybody know how a colectomy might affect having UTI's?  Also, I hate to ask, but does having a colectomy change your sexual relationship with your spouse?

 

I would like to hear from anybody who has gone thru all of this.  I would really appreciate any advice that you can give me.

 

Thanks..

 

 

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Posted 7/9/2007 7:45 PM (GMT -7)
Flbutterfly,

I wish I could answer all of your concerns; however, a colectomy is very individual to the person.  For me, my recovery was average.  I am a fitness instructor so I took about 6 weeks off from work.  However, I was walking about a 3 miles a day once I returned home from the hospital.  While I was in the hosptial I created a one-mile route that I would walk twice a day.  I found that walking made me feel better, heal faster, and got me out of my hospital room.  I was very sore and my stomach was extremely tender but I refused any pain medications because they cause constipation and I did not want to slow my bowels after the surgery.  Now, a year after surgery, I feel better.  The only thing I do not like is my diet.  I have to eat very light foods..tuna, eggs, chicken, fish, jello, shrimp, and such.  I cannot eat lettuce (in any form), raw or cooked veggies (especially raw), raw fruit (unless it is mashed like applesauce), red meats (which I love), and wheat (bread, pasta, rice...).  Needless-to-say, I have a very BORING diet.  But, I can eat and I can go to the bathroom so that is ok.  When I eat foods that do not agree with me, I get severe bloating, stomach pain, and constipation.

This is just my experience.  I know other people who can eat anything they want and feel a lot better than I do.  Like you, I am young and my loose stools are fine.  I have good rectal muscles and I never have any problems holding my bowels for as long as I need to.  I am not sure what UTI stands for so I cannot remark on your questions about that. 

I hope you have a successful surgery. 


Amey

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rose3027
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Posted 7/11/2007 10:41 AM (GMT -7)
Flbutterfly- I feel like I am just like you! I am also young (23) and have the same exact worries, have you gotten any more information? My surgery is in 2.5 weeks, I'm nervous. Will yours be open or lap? I was wondering if anyone knows if they cut through your bellybutton for an open procedure?

Also i know its personal but I was also wondering about the sexual side effects.

Thanks again!
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Amey
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Posted 7/11/2007 12:39 PM (GMT -7)
I did not find that the surgery had any effect on my sex drive. However, my abdominals were very sore for a while and my husband had to be careful of my incision while we were being intimate. My surgery was open. My Dr cut around my belly button and just a little above it.
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adviceseeker
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Posted 7/11/2007 1:39 PM (GMT -7)
Hi all and hi to the new members here,

I ve just had a partial colectomy two weeks ago and surprisingly all pains are gone, i m back on foot doing everything i did before and intensive sports too!

I was in for colonic inertia and when they went in (laparoscopically) they saw my colon was around 2meters long, which is huge..Also it was full of adhesions and was twisted all over the place. They took out around 1m80 of it, which made the surgery 5 hours long!

The first 24 hrs were the toughest eventhough i slept most of it..Then with pain killers everything is manageable!

To rose and butterfly, DON T WORRY :) I got sh** scared too, but it s not that big after all! Think of it as a regular surgery, without complications it s no more than that..

To everyone else, I have a BIG question..I had 3 bms post op, nothing running or watery though, and then it went to one and now it s once a day but quite hard to pass..(the beginning)

Does that mean the doctor did NOT take out enough and that these 20 cm left are still causing problems??? I would hate to have another surgery and there is NO WAY i will be taking meds again..

best to allxx

 

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Posted 7/11/2007 5:03 PM (GMT -7)

Once again, I am thankful for finding this site and meeting so many new friends.  Everyone here seems like extended family to me..

Rose3027 it sounds like we're both going to be having surgery about the same time.  My doctor is going to try doing my surgery laproscopically, but said that he may have to change to open surgery if I have too much scar tissue because I've had previous gynocological surgery.  There are so many unknowns to this surgery.  I am still a little worried about how my body will look when I wake up.  My husband says that he loves me while I am stuffed full of this toxic stuff, so he'll certainly love me without it!  He's kept his sense of humor yeah

I have colonic inertia and my anal sphincter doesn't want to open correctly.  Before surgery I'm having a botox injection, and that is a bit scary, too.  I am trying to keep myself positive, by telling myself that this is all going to turn out well and it will be just a memory next year.  I sincerely hope that everything turns out the absolute best for you.

Amey, you seem so thoughtful and have wonderful advice.  I like reading your messages, and am in awe about you being a fitness instructor and going back to work in six weeks.  Wow!  I work in an office and do desk audits.  We're kind of short staffed right now, so I hope that my recovery can be between 6-8 weeks.  UTI stands for urinary tract infection; I am really susceptible to them, and wondered if any of you have had problems with them because of all of the runny stools? confused

Adviceseeker thank-you!  I've never thought of this as a regular surgery, but you made me smile!  Maybe, we all need to think like you to get thru this.  My surgery is supposed to be 3 hours.  I've heard that the longer that you are under anesthesia, the harder it is to get your sleep patterns back.  Your surgery was 5 hours, so I wonder if it has it been hard for you to get some shut-eye?  I hope that you are alright.  It seems like we all become poo inspectors.  eyes Also, I agree with you.  All of the laxatives that I've taken since all this began is horrible.  My pharmacist does know me by name, and my bathroom does look like a pharmacy.  The worst was 6 ducolax at once that I was asked to take.  It was like I had the flu for 3 days.  I was asked to take 4 lactulose packages a day, too, and thought I was going to blow away from all of the gas!  We've been thru a lot.  

I wish all of you the best!  Keep writing and I'll keep reading..  (There aren't any books on this.  Has anyone thought of writing a book?)

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Posted 7/12/2007 5:03 AM (GMT -7)
Hi

@butterfly my surgery was supposed to be 2 hrs long too, but considering the length of my (now past) colon, it took 5.
I got sleeping pills everyday in hospital and it really went smoothly..just the 24 hrs post op I felt like, as someone said here, hit by a truck!

Really you have to go in positive and think that you will never have to feel like you do now again!

I was at 10 dulco pre op which was about two weeks ago and it already feels like a past memory!

Good luck to youxx
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Posted 7/12/2007 5:31 AM (GMT -7)
Hi All, I wanted to stick my head in and let you nkow why i haven't been around.  I was back in the hospital for 10 days.  The week I went in (June29th), the doc had let me start eating full liqiuds and it caused the same problem....extreme pain and nausea, so off to the hospital.  I was so depressed, i hate that hospital.  20 out of the last 30 days have been there.  Not including the 9 days after my colectomy.   I don't have an obstruction, it just reacts like I do.  I had to do a barium swallow with small bowel follow-thru, this was while my intestines were so dialated and distended, and it about killed me.  The radilogist wouldn't let me have pain meds or nausea meds and made me stay in the room for 3 hours, I was writhing in pain and begging them to take me back to my room.  They kept saying it would slow my intestines....well, they were laready slow!!!!  Finally they sent me back and my nurse came running with phenergan and I had to push my dilaudid pca for over 2 hours to take the edge off.   The docs think my nerve endings are damaged.  My GI doc (whom I haven't seen lately) is trying to get the trial gastric pacer approved.  Otherwise my surgeon, who is the one who admits me, doesn't know what to do.  I'm still on TPN, no food, or water at all.  I am going to try a supplememnt called l-glutamine powder when I am able to drink again.   I am quite weak and tired, both my lupus and MS are kicking in.  I am off my mS meds until all this is resolved.  My small intestine is still dialated and distended so I still have some pain in there.  I'll try to keep everyone posted.  Oh, the surgeon says if it happens again she wants to do exploritory surgery to see if something else is going on and put a g-tube in.  I don't want either, please pray I don't have to go back!!!   Thanks! Michelle ><> Co-Moderator MS forum   Happy Moments, Praise God. Difficult Moments, Seek God. Quiet Moments, Worship God. Painful Moments, Trust God. Every Moment, Thank God.
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