Thankyou for your reply,I do feel that i have had too much to handle health wise..It just seemed that as soon as i had moved on from one illness another one popped up,most of it is related,mainly because the ileostomy had to be performed because of the bowel that was taken out to be inserted into my bladder(which was relatively small)resulting in this procedure..
But the sadness i have felt due to my husband finding the ileostomy too hard to cope with,has made me feel like someone who doen't deserve love..but it took a lot of pain and suffering to get to where i am to-day,and without the operation i was told i would have been dead,so at least i survived that..
I do plan to move on with my life,but i just wondered how other people cope with this..
I have recently had a ileostomy,and in the past i have had my left kidney removed due to reflux from my urator,although it was re-implanted numerous times,it lead to continual infection.
I have also had a cystoplasty(using bowel)and at the moment this is causing problems due to the mucus..I am having treatment for bladder washouts
As much as i am finding it difficult to cope with,i have just been told that my husband wants to end our marriage..
Thankyou for reading..nursy2