After a 42 day stay at the hospital, I'd say you're expecting too much from yourself. You really need to take it slow, take one day at a time, do what you feel up to doing, but be aware you may pay for it the next day.
I had surgery almost 3 months ago, and while I was only in the hospital for 10 days, I had wound care for 2 months. I'm still trying to regain my strength and yes, I'm still out of breath if I take the stairs too quickly. I'm getting stronger each day, but once in a while I do too much and I'm down again for a couple days.
Go a little easier on yourself, there's nothing that won't wait ;0)
49 years old, CD since I was a child.
Six resection surgeries, permanent ostomy, adverse reactions to Remicade, finally off of Prednisone, hoping for a long remission from this last surgery.