I'm so sorry you're still in the hospital and are in a lot of pain.
I went through the same thing after my ileostomy surgery. My bowels didn't wake up for 10 days, and the pain was excruciating. I asked the nurse for Gas-X, which, after checking with my doctor, they brought me, and it really helped.
Hang in there, things will start moving soon, and the pain will go away. Please keep us posted on how you're doing, and don't be afraid to tell the nurses when you're in pain, even if it's 3:00 in the morning! I'll keep you in prayer. What's your first name? That way I don't say, "Lord, I'm praying for Me tonight..."
Dx'd w/ Crohn's in '99 at age 28. Proctocolectomy and ileostomy in '06.
Pain-free, med-free, and very thankful to be healthy again :)